Roby 8:14 Thu Nov 5
Divorce advice please
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Got married summer 2019 and have made a big mistake. She flies off the handle, chucks things etc all the time and worse and is basically crazy.
House is in my name and purchased 8 months before we were married. We have a joint account for bills etc but I pay the mortgage myself from my own bank account.
She is now down as my wife on my pension which obviously I need to change sharpish.
Got maybe £170k paid off on the house I paid £250k for - we have no kids and it shouldn’t get too messy but I don’t want her getting any of it as she has her own flat anyway from before we were married. She doesn’t have much equity in hers though.
Anyone have any advice - how do I do a quick divorce and what are the likely fees? Is my best bet to transfer the house to my parents name ASAP or do you need to have the whole mortgage paid off to be able to do that??
Sadly I can’t be the only one on here ever in this boat so in please bestow me your wise advise lads... Cheers.
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Faux Bare
8:16 Thu Nov 5
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What a failure you are.
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Tomsdad
8:17 Thu Nov 5
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This should be good!
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Jasnik
8:24 Thu Nov 5
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Did you get married in Mexico?
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Jasnik
8:24 Thu Nov 5
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Got married summer 2019 - I blame Covid...
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Roby
8:26 Thu Nov 5
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No - the Caribbean.
Had a nice holiday out of it at least.
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Side of Ham
8:28 Thu Nov 5
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What sort of stuff do you say to make her fly off the handle......
....is it things like "Where's my dinner bitch?"
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Nurse Ratched
8:28 Thu Nov 5
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So...you're single?
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Darlo Debs
8:29 Thu Nov 5
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If you end up.losing half the house that'll be ine expensive holiday.
Not chance of getting some counselling?
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Far Cough
8:31 Thu Nov 5
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I got married on the beach in Marco Island, Florida
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Side of Ham
8:31 Thu Nov 5
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....isn't what he's doing cancelling?
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Darlo Debs
8:37 Thu Nov 5
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Are you suggesting he is one of them cancel culture types? Shame on him
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Mr. Burns
8:37 Thu Nov 5
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“Is basically crazy”.
That’s all of them isn’t it?
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Side of Ham
8:43 Thu Nov 5
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Don't tell me you met and married her at one of 'those' Hedonism resorts Roby......
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westhammerer
8:53 Thu Nov 5
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Funnily enough just been on Mumsnet and seen this -
Got married summer 2019 and have made a big mistake. He flies off the handle, chucks things etc all the time and worse and is basically crazy.
House is in his name and purchased 8 months before we were married. We have a joint account for bills etc but he pays the mortgage from his own bank account.
I am now down as his wife on his pension which obviously he wants to change sharpish.
He has, as he keeps boring on about, 170k paid off on the house he paid 250k for. Thankfully we have no kids and it shouldnt get too messy but he seems to think Im just into his money when really I want to leave the git asap. I have my own flat and need advice on how do I do a quick divorce and couldnt care less about the fees or mortgage, the boring git is money obsessed
Sadly I cant be the only one on here ever in this boat so in please bestow me your wise advise girls. Cheers.
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ChesterRd
8:53 Thu Nov 5
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I would recommend talking to a marriage guidance counsellor. Sounds like you going through a bad patch, as is she, but it may be something that can be worked through.
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Darlo Debs
8:58 Thu Nov 5
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Westhammerer very good 😂
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Jasnik
9:00 Thu Nov 5
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How long did you know her before you got married?
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ak37
9:03 Thu Nov 5
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You’ve got to be a bit mental to ask for divorce advice on here. Maybe try asking a divorce lawyer.
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lab
9:03 Thu Nov 5
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Next time she throws something get yer mooey in the way of it . Take a selfie . Will help your position.
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Darlo Debs
9:06 Thu Nov 5
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Did you not live together before yoi married?
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